For years, I kept my stepdad, Mark, at a distance. When my real dad walked out, Mark quietly stepped in—every recital, every scraped knee. But I never let him close. Loving him felt like betraying someone who had already left.
At 18, I left and barely looked back. When I finally did, it was too late. Mark had died before I could say goodbye.
At the funeral, my mom handed me his old jacket. I stuffed it in a closet for years—until one day, I found a note in the pocket:
“Even if you never call me ‘Dad,’ raising you was the greatest privilege of my life.”
Now I wear that jacket—and his love—with pride. He was always my father.