Many Japanese couples continue to sleep apart, even in smaller homes, and view this practice as beneficial rather than a sign of relationship issues. Here are some reasons why:
- Different Sleep Schedules
Busy work schedules often lead to differing bedtimes, so sleeping separately allows both partners to rest without disturbing each other. - Co-Sleeping with Babies
In Japan, it’s common for mothers to sleep with their babies, which promotes better sleep for both and is believed to have health benefits for the child, such as lowering the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). - Peaceful Sleep
Japanese couples value uninterrupted sleep. Sleeping separately can help avoid disturbances like snoring or restless movements, leading to better rest for both. - Tradition of Sleeping Apart
Historically, Japanese couples used futons, which were small and offered little room for two people to sleep comfortably together. This tradition continues today, especially as futons are space-efficient.
Could sleeping separately benefit your relationship?