Winter arrived early that year, heavy and unapologetic. The first snow fell in thick, quiet sheets, muffling the street and turning our modest neighborhood into something softer, almost gentle. For my eight-year-old son, Leo, it felt like the beginning of a season-long adventure. For me, it started as nothing more than a harmless childhood obsession until it turned into a lesson our entire block would remember.
Leo had always loved building things with his hands. Lego towers, cardboard forts, elaborate pillow castles that took over the living room. But snow unlocked something different in him. Something focused. Something purposeful.The very first afternoon after the storm, he tore through the front door, cheeks flushed, boots clomping loudly against the tile.
“Mom! Can I go outside right now? I need to finish him before it gets dark.”“Finish who?” I asked, already smiling as I set down my mug.
He looked at me like the answer should have been obvious. “The snowman.”From that day forward, snowmen became his mission.
Every afternoon after school, he followed the same routine. The backpack dropped in a heap. Coat half-zipped. Hat pulled too far down over one eye.
“I’m fine,” he’d mutter whenever I tried to straighten it. “Snowmen don’t care what I look like.”Our front yard—specifically the far corner near the driveway—became his chosen workshop. It wasn’t close to the street, and it wasn’t in the way. It was very clearly on our property, a patch of grass that curved gently inward, as if inviting his creations to stand there.
Each snowman was different. Some were tall and narrow. Others are squat and sturdy. He used sticks scavenged from the hedge, smooth stones for eyes, and an old red scarf he’d claimed from the donation box and declared “official snowman business.”
He named every single one.