When my four-year-old son said, “Grandma made me spit in a tube,” I knew my mother-in-law had crossed a line. What I didn’t know was that her DNA test would expose the secret I’d buried for years.
I’m 28, married to William, and we have a four-year-old son named Billy.
William makes you feel safe just by being in the same room. His mother, Denise, smiles like she’s doing you a favor by tolerating your existence. And my MIL has never accepted my son.
When we met, I already had Billy.
William loved him instantly. But Denise’s first comment was chilling.
I swallowed the hurt.
We built an uneasy truce with fake smiles and Sunday dinners.
That truce ended in the strangest way possible.
It was a lazy Saturday. Billy was playing with dinosaurs when he looked up and spat.
Then he giggled.
“Billy, what are you doing?” I asked.
“Spitting!
It’s fun, Mommy!”
“Did the kids at kindergarten teach you that?” He shook his head. “No. Grandma made me spit in a tube.
It was fun!
And I got a sticker.”
“A tube?” My stomach dropped.
I smiled at Billy, but inside I was screaming.
That night I told William. He looked uneasy.
“She watched him last week. She said they did a science activity.”
“Babe, you might be overthinking this.”
I didn’t sleep.
I kept thinking about my child’s genetic blueprint floating around because Denise got curious.
And there was another layer I hadn’t told William about.
A layer I’d buried so deep I almost convinced myself it wasn’t real.
Two weeks later, we were at Denise’s house for Sunday dinner. Picture immaculate table, glowing candles, and a house that always felt like it was silently judging you.
Denise stood up and clinked her glass like she was about to announce a pregnancy.
“I have a surprise!” she said, her eyes locked directly on me. “A couple of weeks ago, I collected Billy’s DNA and sent it to one of those ancestry services.”
My whole body tensed.
“You… what?”
“The ones that match you with relatives!” she continued, like she was describing a cute hobby.
“Isn’t that exciting?”
I stood up so fast my chair scraped.
“You sent our son’s DNA without our consent?”
Denise tilted her head, sweet and poisonous. “Why does that upset you? If you have nothing to hide, it shouldn’t matter.”