I sensed something was wrong long before anyone else cared enough to notice.
My daughter, Maya, was fifteen. She used to fill our house with noise—music blasting from her room, laughter spilling out during late-night chats with friends, muddy cleats abandoned by the door after soccer practice. But slowly, almost imperceptibly at first, that energy faded.
She stopped eating full meals. She slept through afternoons. She wore oversized sweaters even indoors, even on warm days. And when she thought no one was watching, she pressed a hand to her stomach as if bracing herself against something sharp and invisible.
She told me she felt sick. Dizzy. Tired all the time. Sometimes she said her stomach hurt so badly it felt like something was twisting inside her.
My husband, Robert, brushed it off.
“She’s exaggerating,” he said one evening, not even looking up from his phone. “Teenagers do that. Don’t waste time or money on doctors.”
He said it with authority. With finality.
And for a while, I let his certainty drown out my fear.
The Quiet Changes That Wouldn’t Go Away
Weeks passed. Maya’s face lost its color. Her clothes hung looser on her frame. She stopped asking to hang out with friends and stopped caring about school projects she once loved.I watched her push food around her plate and claim she wasn’t hungry. I watched her flinch when she bent to tie her shoes. I watched her retreat further into herself, like a door slowly closing.
What scared me most wasn’t the physical pain.
It was the silence.“I always will.”
And I meant it.
Our life isn’t perfect.
But it’s ours.
And it’s safe.
And that is enough.