For years, I used to joke that I’d won the parenting lottery with Frank.
He was the kid who used a coaster without being reminded. The one who cleared the table before I even stood up. His report cards arrived like clockwork, all A’s, all glowing comments. A pleasure to have in class. A natural leader.
Then my husband got sick.
Hospitals replaced soccer practices. The steady hum of machines replaced dinner conversations. And somehow, through it all, Frank stayed… steady.
While the monitors beeped beside his father’s bed, Frank would sit in the corner with a workbook.
“Did you finish your homework?” my husband would ask, his voice thin but teasing.
“All of it,” Frank would answer, chin up.
My husband would smile, pride flickering in tired eyes.
I thought Frank was holding it together.
A few nights after another hospital visit, I stood at the sink staring at dishes I didn’t remember dirtying. The water ran over porcelain while my hands trembled. There wasn’t a dramatic breakdown—just a quiet unraveling, like a seam slowly coming apart.
“Mom?”
I wiped my face fast. “I’m fine.”
He didn’t argue. He just picked up the towel.
“I’ll dry.”
We stood there side by side. After a minute, he nudged me gently.