My daughter, Claire, once told me she and her husband chose to live child-free. At the time, I was shocked and reacted poorly. In anger, I told her that if she had no children, I wouldn’t leave her an inheritance. I thought I was teaching her a lesson, but in truth, I was letting my disappointment cloud my love for her.
Months later, Claire and her husband adopted a little boy. They were overjoyed, but instead of celebrating with them, I let my stubborn pride speak. “He’s not my blood,” I said coldly. She smiled sadly, gathered her son, and walked out. That moment should have been filled with love, but I let judgment build a wall between us.