For decades, she has been celebrated as one of Hollywood’s most compelling actresses — the kind of performer who earns awards, headlines, and a place in the cultural memory. But long before she was a star, before the red carpets and magazine covers, she was a child navigating a world so chaotic and painful that it’s astonishing she survived it at all.
She was born in 1962 in Roswell, New Mexico, to a teenage mother, Virginia, whose brief marriage to Air Force airman Charles Harmon Sr. dissolved almost instantly. Her father left after just two months, deserting the family long before she was born. Three months into her life, her mother remarried — this time to a newspaper ad salesman whose restless job-hopping sent them from one town to another like loose pages in the wind.