After Five Years Devoted to Caring for My Paralyzed

For five long years, Esteban measured his life not in days or months, but in hospital shifts, medication schedules, and the steady rhythm of his wife’s breathing as she slept. He often joked bitterly that he knew the hospital corridors better than his own home, and it wasn’t far from the truth. Sofía’s accident had rewritten the meaning of marriage for him, stripping it of romance and replacing it with duty, patience, and an almost sacred stubbornness.

Friends whispered that he was wasting his life, that no one would blame him for stepping away, but Esteban believed vows were not poetic words meant for easy times. He believed they were promises designed for moments exactly like this. Before the accident, their life on the outskirts of Guadalajara had been modest but warm. They were both elementary school teachers, proud of shaping young minds, content with afternoon walks, shared meals, and quiet evenings grading papers side by side. When Sofía was rushed to the hospital after the car accident—her small car crushed by a speeding truck as she left the market with bags of marigolds for Día de los Muertos—Esteban ran until his lungs burned. Seeing her lying there, unable to move, her eyes full of terror and disbelief, broke something inside him that never fully healed.

From that day forward, he stopped being just a husband. He became her nurse, her physical therapist, her advocate, and sometimes the only voice she heard all day. Their house transformed into a small medical ward, cluttered with gauze, ointments, wheelchairs, and handwritten schedules taped to the walls. Esteban woke before dawn to prepare her atolito, fed her slowly, cleaned her, lifted her with aching arms, and then rushed out to do electrical repair jobs after taking an extended leave from teaching to cover expenses.

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