After 36 Years of Marriage, We Divorced, Living Separate Lives and Bearing Our Regrets

Our families lived side by side, so our lives grew together naturally—same backyard games, same schools, the same familiar rhythms. Summers felt endless back then, filled with scraped knees, late sunsets, and the certainty that the world was safe, a cocoon of familiarity that promised everything would always be fine. We shared birthdays, neighborhood fairs, and campfires that smelled of burning pine and roasting marshmallows. School dances followed, awkward glances and first crushes, laughter echoing down corridors that seemed to stretch forever.

Then adulthood arrived so quietly we barely noticed, slipping in like a whisper of wind through an open window. We married when we were twenty, barely adults ourselves, and it didn’t feel rushed—it felt inevitable, a continuation of the life we had already built together in blocks of shared memories. Money was scarce, yes, but somehow it never mattered; life was simple, honest, and predictable. Then came our children, the first a daughter with her father’s quiet eyes, the second a son two years later with my stubborn chin. A modest house in the suburbs, one road-trip vacation a year, long evenings in the backyard filled with the hum of cicadas and the distant laughter of neighbors—life seemed so ordinary, so safe, that I didn’t notice when cracks began forming beneath the surface. I didn’t see the truth slipping away, hidden in small silences and unasked questions, in the slight tension when he passed by my side in the kitchen or glanced at his phone just a second too long.
Troy had hidden the truth, yes—but he had done so out of love, in the only way he knew how. And in that understanding, I found a measure of peace I had not thought possible after a lifetime together, ending as abruptly and silently as it had begun.

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