What hurt me the most wasn’t that my ex-husband had remarried.
It was that his new wife seemed determined to erase me completely from the lives of the very children I had brought into this world.
When our divorce was finalized, I lost much more than a marriage. I lost the bedtime stories, the school drop-offs, and the unexpected hugs from little hands covered in cookie crumbs in the kitchen.
For years, I had been a full-time mother. I stayed home to care for our two children, making sure they had meals, clean clothes, and everything they needed. Meanwhile, my husband had a steady job, his name was on the mortgage, and he controlled most of our finances.
When we separated, I was left with almost no income of my own, barely any savings, and no house to call mine.
Eventually, the court granted my ex-husband primary custody. I was allowed to see the children only two weekends a month.
I was devastated, but I kept telling myself this was only a temporary setback. I would find a job, rebuild my life, and slowly get back on my feet. Even if I couldn’t live with my children every day, I would prove that I was still their mother.
I was fighting to protect something no one had the right to take away: my love and my place in my children’s lives.
And no matter what happened, I would never stop being their mother.