My seven-year-old daughter and my husband started having locked-door “private talks” in the garage every afternoon—and the silence on the other side of that door slowly became too loud to ignore.
I’m thirty-five. My husband, Jason, is thirty-seven. Our daughter, Lizzie, is seven.
Jason has always been a hands-on dad. The kind people praise but don’t really question because it seems so natural on him.He shows up. School events, bedtime stories, hair brushing, tea parties on the floor. He does it all without being asked, without keeping score.
So when the garage thing started, I told myself not to be paranoid.
The first time it happened, Lizzie burst through the door after school with her backpack half-unzipped, shoes kicked off in the hallway. Jason was in the kitchen drying his hands.
“Hey, kiddo,” he said. “Garage time?”
Her face lit up. “Garage time!”
They were out there for about forty minutes.I looked up from my laptop. “What’s garage time?”
Jason smirked. “Private talks. You’re not invited.”
Lizzie giggled. “Yup, you’re not invited, Mom.”That night, we curled up on the couch in our sweaters. Lizzie fell asleep in my lap. Jason traced the words on my chest with his thumb.
“Best mom and wife,” he said softly.
“I’m trying to believe it,” I replied.
A few weeks earlier, I was braced for something that might have destroyed my family.
Instead, I found love—hidden under a rug, stitched together with yarn, waiting patiently in a cold garage.
I’m not proud I planted a camera.
But now, when Lizzie grabs his hand and says, “Private talks in the garage, Dad?” the panic doesn’t come back.
I just feel the sweater against my skin—and remember what was really happening behind that door.