At 73, my dad spent his whole retirement fund on a $35,000 Harley instead of helping me pay off my loans. He calls it his “last great adventure.”
When he first rolled it into the driveway, the machine gleamed like a polished jewel. Chrome shone in the late afternoon sunlight, the leather seat looked untouched, and the smell of gasoline lingered in the air.
Dad stood beside it with a boyish grin stretched across his weathered face, the same grin I remembered from childhood when he used to surprise me with ice cream after school. But I couldn’t bring myself to smile back. All I could think about was the suffocating weight of my student debt, the late notices piling up in my email, and the constant anxiety gnawing at me.
For months, I’d quietly hoped that maybe Dad would use some of his savings to help me dig out of the hole I’d fallen into. I wasn’t expecting a full rescue, just a lifeline. But instead, he chose this: two wheels, an engine, and a dream.
Nice. That was all I could muster. To understand my frustration, you’d need to know a little about us.
My dad worked hard his entire life as a postal carrier. He woke before dawn, trudged through rain and heat, carried envelopes up countless stairs, and pushed through the kind of exhaustion that settles deep in your bones. He did it without complaint, and in the evenings, he came home and asked how my day was.
He’d been a single parent since I was nine, when my mom walked out, unable to handle the grind of bills and responsibility. Dad never remarried. He poured everything he had into me—school lunches, braces, helping me apply to colleges
When I got into a good university, he celebrated like it was his own victory. But tuition was brutal. Loans stacked high.
He helped where he could, but his own retirement always came first. At least, that’s what I thought. For years, he talked about retiring modestly, maybe moving to a smaller house or spending weekends fishing.
But then came the Harley. “It’s my last great adventure,” he repeated over dinner that night, eyes twinkling like a kid’s. “I’ve been thinking about this for years.